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Kristin Wilder - Bend, OR

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As a certified sex (and trauma-informed) coach and life coach who grew up in a very conservative religious home, I love reconnecting people to become free in their pleasure and their purpose, so they can live in true joy and fulfillment.

I believe in the power of connection and community, and that true change requires courage, consistency, and compassion. As a ShapeShifter, I fluently ‘speak’ all Erotic Blueprints. My own lived experience of healing after divorce, cPTSD, post-concussive syndrome, and abuse gives me a deep capacity for empathy and understanding.

Licensed & Certified Erotic Blueprints(TM) Coach, Somatic Attachment Therapy Coach, and Wheel of Consent educator.

I am also a certified OOLA Life Coach, Green Gap Financial Coach, and Business Leadership Coach, so I am able to support your big-picture vision for life, bringing more balance and deeper purpose to all areas of your life.

Pleasure maven, living permission slip, accidental rebel, worshipful heretic, shapeshifter extraordinaire and mirror of truth, I am a transmission of unconditional love. My specialties in Erotic Blueprint® coaching, Devotional Kink™ & Somatic Shibari Storytelling™ as well as my programs Wilder Intimacy™ and Green Flag Dating™ open the heart, soul, spirit and body to deep presence and healing, transcendent pleasure, and spiritual & erotic liberation.

I am especially passionate about serving:

♥ Christians, ex-vangelicals, and other current or formerly religious people who desire to bring more variety, fulfillment, and excitement to their marriage. I have experience working with LDS / Mormons, Orthodox Jews, and Christian couples, with openness to any and all religious backgrounds. (I have a special soft spot for people who have experienced repressive, oppressive religion, purity culture, sexual shame, guilt, or pain, who desire to truly enjoying the sexual pleasure that is their birthright.)
♥ Singles who want to become more embodied and confident in their dating, learn to date according to their erotic blueprint and heal their relationship with themselves to be more prepared and equipped for dating and partnership.
♥ Couples who have differences, challenges, and longings, trauma and/or disconnection and want to deepen their sexual pleasure.
♥ People who are currently partnered, but who need solo work with a coach.